deference

noun def·er·ence \ˈde-fə-rən(t)s, ˈdef-rən(t)s\

: a way of behaving that shows respect for someone or something

Full Definition of DEFERENCE

: respect and esteem due a superior or an elder; also : affected or ingratiating regard for another's wishes

— in deference to

: in consideration of <returned early in deference to her parents' wishes>

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Examples of DEFERENCE

Deference to leaders and intolerance toward outsiders (and toward “enemies within”) are hallmarks of tribalism … —Benjamin R. Barber, Atlantic, March 1992
In the 1980s, in deference to the neighborhoods, City Hall would attempt a counter-reformation of downtown, forbidding “Manhattanization.” —Richard Rodriguez, Harper's, October 1990
She could have subtly appealed to the deference … she knew was still in there, encoded in their middle-aged hearts; she never did. —Peggy Noonan, New York Times Magazine, 16 Dec. 1990
A sense of deference to the upper class among whites made it possible, in Sproat's estimation, for white leaders to contain the white supremacists. —Robert L. Harris, Jr., American Historical Review, December 1987
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Origin of DEFERENCE

(see ²defer)

First Known Use: 1660

Related to DEFERENCE

Synonyms: acquiescence, biddability, compliancy, compliance, docility, obedience, submissiveness

Antonyms: defiance, disobedience, intractability, recalcitrance

Synonym Discussion of DEFERENCE

honor, homage, reverence, deference mean respect and esteem shown to another. honor may apply to the recognition of one's right to great respect or to any expression of such recognition <the nomination is an honor>. homage adds the implication of accompanying praise <paying homage to Shakespeare>. reverence implies profound respect mingled with love, devotion, or awe <great reverence for my father>. deference implies a yielding or submitting to another's judgment or preference out of respect or reverence <showed no deference to their elders>.